This word that makes guys becoming jerk dan kalimat ini dipercaya oleh banyak ABG labil sampai saat ini untuk menarik wanita jatuh ke pelukan mereka. Bahkan ada yang bukan ABG tapi masih menganut semboyan ini. Mereka percaya bahwa untuk disukai banyak orang (baca: wanita) maka mereka harus menjadi bad guys. A lot of shallow single guys doing this in order to attract girls and yes they did it but yet, they still single. So, bad guys only attract because, offcourse, bad guys different from other guy and girls will pay attention on that.
Bad guys is not the only way to attract and attach girls and not all nice guys finish last. A lot of nice guys even finish first among other bad guys (me, for example hahaha). Nice guys ini selain disukai para wanita juga disukai orang-orang yang lebih tua diatasnya karena mereka bersikap hormat. Mereka juga disukai sesama teman prianya karena mereka tidak arogan dan rendah hati. Nice guys never put girls on their motive because they have higher goals. For them, the passion is their motive. They are very confident on what they do and never put their happiness in a girl hand.
Since we have destined as leader than we should play that role. Bad guys will never take that role but nice guys does. Only true leader will follow by other (including women and money) not the other way around. Jika kita, para lelaki, berfokus untuk menjadi pemimpin maka kita tidak usah khawatir hal lainnya. Jika kita masih berfokus pada cara memikat wanita dengan memakai berbagai trik, well, what a pity. You waste your time dude. hidup kita tidak menjadi sempurna dengan adanya wanita karena Allah telah menginstal semua yang kita butuhkan. Believe me guys, women do not need a loser or player. What they need is a leader that can lead them to an ever after happiness.
So, be a nice guy (baca: Leader) and you will finish first. Find your passion and be in it. If you already become a nice guy and still finish last, make it sure that you're finish in Allah's heaven.
Salam perjuangan,
Andhika
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